What Do I Want to Be When I Grow Up?

We ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฑ ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜† ๐˜๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐˜€ โ€” ๐—ณ๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐—บ our child and ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ผ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป:
โ€œWhen I grow up, I want to be like Uncle.โ€

In Singapore, they mean the workers they see building roads and buildings. When parents ask them why they wish to be like them.

โ€œBecause he has a big machine, a big truck, a big busโ€ฆโ€

And that may be the whole answer.

๐—ช๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜†๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐˜„๐—ฎ๐—ป๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ฎ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐˜€ ๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐˜ƒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐—ฎ ๐—ฑ๐—ผ๐—ฐ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟ, ๐—ฎ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐—ด๐—ต๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ฟ, ๐—ผ๐—ฟ โ€œ๐—จ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—น๐—ฒ ๐˜„๐—ถ๐˜๐—ต ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐˜ƒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ผ๐—ฟโ€, ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐—ป๐—ผ๐˜ ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ผ๐—ผ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ต.

๐—ง๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—น๐—ธ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐—ฏ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ๐˜† ๐—ฐ๐—ฎ๐—ป ๐˜€๐—ฒ๐—ฒ.

  • The bus driver drives the bus.

  • The doctor helps when someone is hurt.

  • The firefighter puts out fires.

  • Uncle has a big machine and makes holes in the ground.

๐—™๐—ผ๐—ฟ ๐˜†๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฐ๐—ต๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ป, ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐—ป๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ฒ.

* They understand action before they understand titles. They notice the people who visibly move, build, fix, drive and help.

That is why their play is full of tools, uniforms, vehicles and role-play.

๐—”๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฝ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜ ๐—ถ๐˜€ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฒ ๐—ฝ๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐˜ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐˜๐—ต ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—บ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด ๐—ฎ๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ฑ๐˜‚๐—น๐˜๐˜€.

๐—ช๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐—ณ๐˜๐—ฒ๐—ป ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฏ๐—ฒ ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ฟ ๐˜„๐—ผ๐—ฟ๐—ธ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฟ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—ด๐—ต ๐˜๐—ถ๐˜๐—น๐—ฒ๐˜€, ๐—บ๐—ฒ๐—ฒ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ป๐—ด๐˜€, ๐˜๐—ฎ๐—ฟ๐—ด๐—ฒ๐˜๐˜€ ๐—ฎ๐—ป๐—ฑ ๐—ท๐—ผ๐—ฏ ๐—ฑ๐—ฒ๐˜€๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ถ๐—ฝ๐˜๐—ถ๐—ผ๐—ป๐˜€.

๐—•๐˜‚๐˜ ๐—ถ๐—ณ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐—ต๐—ฎ๐—ฑ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฒ๐˜…๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฎ๐—ถ๐—ป ๐—ถ๐˜ ๐˜๐—ผ ๐—ฎ preschooler, ๐—ฐ๐—ผ๐˜‚๐—น๐—ฑ ๐˜„๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐—ถ๐—บ๐—ฝ๐—น๐˜† ๐˜€๐—ฎ๐˜†:

โ€œ๐—œ ๐—ต๐—ฒ๐—น๐—ฝ ๐—ฝ๐—ฒ๐—ผ๐—ฝ๐—น๐—ฒ.โ€

|โ€œ๐—œ ๐—ฏ๐˜‚๐—ถ๐—น๐—ฑ.โ€

โ€œ๐—œ ๐—ณ๐—ถ๐˜….โ€

โ€œ๐—œ ๐—ฐ๐—ฟ๐—ฒ๐—ฎ๐˜๐—ฒ.โ€

โ€œ๐—œ ๐—บ๐—ฎ๐—ธ๐—ฒ ๐˜€๐˜‚๐—ฟ๐—ฒ ๐˜๐—ต๐—ฎ๐˜...โ€

Children remind us that work makes sense when we can see what it does.

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