Parent Corner // Why does my child say “Watch me” all the time?

One of the most profound needs young children experience is not merely for attention, but for genuine connection.

Behind the repetitive calls of:

● “Watch me.”

● “Look!”

● “Mummy!”

● “Did you see?”

lies an essential developmental process. These moments can feel exhausting during a busy day, yet it is through the eyes of trusted adults that children begin to shape their sense of self.

When a child invites you to “Watch me jump!”, they are seeking more than an audience for a skill. They are silently asking: “Do you see me?” “Am I capable?” “Does what I do matter to you?”

The Power of Presence Over Praise

This biological drive for connection does not require constant entertainment or excessive external validation, which can sometimes become overwhelming. Instead, what children truly need is your presence. A simple, thoughtful acknowledgement often carries more weight than a standard “Good job!”

Try offering observations such as:

● “I saw how focused you were.”

● “You kept trying even when it was hard.”

● “You look very proud of yourself.”

By responding with intention, you support the development of:

● Confidence and internal motivation

● Emotional security and a sense of competence

Over time, this foundation of feeling “seen” allows children to rely less on constant approval and more on their own internal validation.

A Moment of Reflection

This week, when your child calls for you to watch, pause and ask yourself: “Am I immediately evaluating their performance, or am I first connecting with them?” Sometimes, simply being truly seen is the most meaningful gift we can provide for their growth."